‘Of course you should understand me!’

If you’re a long-time reader of this blog, you know that much of what we (Good Friend, Inc. co-founders Chelsea Budde and Denise Schamens) write about comes from personal experience.  Whether it’s something we’ve encountered while “in the field” or in our own homes, raising children with differently-wired brains, it’s often illustrative of a greater … Read more

Reasonable Accommodations

My family and I are on vacation.  We are visiting theme parks and family, splitting up when we need to for the well-being of our kiddos on the spectrum.  My 15-year-old son in particular has a number of “rules” he’s self-imposed to protect against sensory assaults and general violations.  One is that he cannot get … Read more

Talking to Children about Talking

A couple weeks ago, I was with my 12-year-old daughter and 15-year-old son at a public park pool in our community.  It’s generally a great place to connect with friends from school.  But not all children are friendly — or at least they say some pretty unfriendly things.  One group of 14ish-year-olds made my son … Read more

Talking about an ASD Diagnosis

Following a recent Good Friend Peer Sensitivity Workshop, an observer remarked how she had seen similar presentations about autism, but the presenter never actually used the word “autism”.  I thought that was much like talking about reproduction without mentioning the sex organs: not very helpful, and one leaves with more questions than useful information.  I … Read more

Six Weeks of Pure Awesome

March and April are hands down Good Friend, Inc.‘s busiest months.  We’re right in the thick of our two big annual fundraising events: the ongoing Highlight It Up Blue campaign, which this year involves four stylists and runs through April 23; and our Hoa Aloha Autism Awareness Bowling Event, coming up on this Sunday, April … Read more